Belly dancing.

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Belly dancing! Now there’s a thing! It’s one of those ancient, mysterious arts that somehow ended up being taught in the back room of a community centre in Gateshead, next to the Zumba class and the bloke who thinks he’s a ninja because he’s got a black dressing gown and a stick.

Now, I went to a belly dancing class once. Not on purpose, mind you. I thought it was a curry night. I walked in, expecting a bhuna and a pint, and instead I’m surrounded by women in jangly scarves, shaking bits of themselves I didn’t even know had independent suspension.

And the instructor!? Oh, she was magnificent. She had hips that could start a small earthquake in Byker. She said, “Just let your body move like water.” I said, “Aye, well mine’s more like gravy! thick, lumpy, and prone to sudden eruptions.”

You’ve never known true humility until you’ve tried to isolate your abdominal muscles while a pensioner named Moira is doing figure-eights with her pelvis like she’s summoning ancient gods! I looked like I was trying to shake a wasp out of my trousers. And not even a dangerous wasp just a mildly annoyed one!

And the music!? It’s all finger cymbals and flutes, like a snake’s about to pop out of a basket and offer you a discount on car insurance. You’re meant to feel sensual, but I felt like a malfunctioning washing machine on spin cycle. I was sweating like a Geordie in a salad bar!

But there’s a moment, just a small moment, where you catch yourself in the mirror, mid-shimmy, and you think, “Aye. I am the goddess of the Nile. I am the storm. I am the reason Tutankhamun wore eyeliner.”

Then you trip over your own foot, knock over a scented candle, and set fire to the instructor’s scarf. And suddenly you’re not a goddess you’re a health and safety incident.

But I’ll tell you this: Belly dancing teaches you something. Not just about your body, but about joy. About letting go. About the sheer, unfiltered madness of being alive and jiggling in public. And if that’s not worth a few bruised ribs and a restraining order from Moira, I don’t know what is.

Now if you’ll excuse me, I’ve got to ice my spleen. It’s been vibrating since Tuesday!

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